Created on Aug. 5, 2025, 10:55 a.m. - by Louis, Bayron
I'm trying to figure something out and would appreciate hearing from others. For a while now, I've noticed a disconnect where my mind and emotional desire are totally there for my partner, but my body just doesn't seem to get the message physically. Most advice seems to lump this all together as 'low libido,' but that doesn't feel accurate to my situation. I've been doing some research and came across discussions about how things like stress or hormonal changes can affect blood flow, which is a purely physical mechanism. This led me to learn about specific treatments like Lady Era that are designed to address that exact vascular component, rather than desire itself. It makes me wonder how many others have had to distinguish between a lack of wanting and a lack of physical response, and if addressing the physical side was the key to solving the problem.